{"id":2,"date":"2016-09-20T15:42:55","date_gmt":"2016-09-20T15:42:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/youreoutofscope.com\/\/?page_id=2"},"modified":"2023-08-14T19:46:10","modified_gmt":"2023-08-14T19:46:10","slug":"scope","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/youreoutofscope.com\/","title":{"rendered":"Scope and Not Scope"},"content":{"rendered":"

THE ROAD TO OUT OF SCOPE IS PAVED WITH GOOD INTENTIONS<\/h1>\n

13 Approval seeking behaviours<\/h2>\n
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  1. Changing or softening your position because someone appears to disapprove<\/li>\n
  2. Paying insincere compliments to gain approval<\/li>\n
  3. Feeling upset, worried, or insulted when someone disagrees with you<\/li>\n
  4. Expressing agreement (verbally or non-verbally) when you do not agree<\/li>\n
  5. Doing something which you do not want to do because you are afraid to say \u2018No\u2019<\/li>\n
  6. Failing to complain when you have received poor service or a product not fit for purpose<\/li>\n
  7. Spreading bad news and gossip to gain attention<\/li>\n
  8. Asking permission when it is not required<\/li>\n
  9. Consistently apologising for your words and deeds whether others have expressed disapproval or not e.g. \u2018I\u2019m sorry but..\u2019<\/li>\n
  10. Pretending to be knowledgeable or an authority on a subject because you are afraid to admit that there is something you do not know.<\/li>\n
  11. Attempting to coax people into paying you compliments and\/or getting upset when they fail to do so.<\/li>\n
  12. Behaving in a non-conforming manner in order to draw attention to yourself.<\/li>\n
  13. Any behaviour which is contrary to your identity and purpose, or conflicts with your core beliefs, is generally done to gain the approval of someone else.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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